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    Is a Parenting Plan Legally Binding?

    Is a Parenting Plan Legally Binding?

    Parenting Plan

    Trying to work around the complexities of co-parenting can be challenging, but creating a parenting plan helps provide clarity and structure for both parents and children. However, one common question that arises is whether a parenting plan is legally binding. In this blog, we’ll explore the role of family mediation, and what options are available to make a parenting plan legally binding. We’ll also discuss the potential for disputes and non-compliance with a parenting plan and what steps can be taken in these situations.

    Understanding Parenting Plans

    A parenting plan is a written agreement between parents that outlines how they will share responsibilities and make decisions regarding their children’s upbringing. While it’s not a legally binding document on its own, it is highly encouraged and considered an essential tool for co-parents to ensure their children’s best interests are met.

    Family Mediation: The Initial Step

    Family mediation is often recommended as the first step in creating a parenting plan, if you are unable to work together to create one yourselves. It involves the assistance of a neutral third-party mediator who helps parents reach a mutually agreeable plan that takes into account the child’s welfare. Family mediation can be a highly effective way to reduce conflict and promote cooperation between parents.

    The Government have allocated vouchers for mediation up to the value of £500 for couples who need help reaching an agreement on parenting matters. These funds will cover the cost of your first online joint mediation session. There are more details on this scheme HERE.

    Making a Parenting Plan Legally Binding

    In the United Kingdom, parenting plans serve as helpful tools for parents to outline responsibilities and decisions regarding their children’s upbringing. However, these plans, on their own, are not legally binding. To provide legal weight to a parenting plan, there are three main options available:

    1. Child Arrangements Order by Consent:

    When both parents agree to the terms of the parenting plan, they can jointly apply to the court for a Consent Order. The court will review the plan and, if it deems the arrangements in the child’s best interests, approve it. Once approved, the Consent Order makes the parenting plan legally binding. Consent Orders are often sought during divorce proceedings to formalise child arrangements. It is important to note a court will only make any parenting plan legally binding if they consider it is in the child’s best interest to do so.

    1. Child Arrangements Order:

    judge and gavelIn cases where parents cannot reach an agreement through a parenting plan, either parent can apply to the court for a Child Arrangements Order. This legal process involves the court making decisions regarding child arrangements on behalf of the parents. The resulting order is legally binding and both parents are required to adhere to its terms. The court will make the decision but may refer back to mediation on some points if they believe the parents are better placed to make the decision between themselves.

    Challenges and Non-Compliance

    Even after a parenting plan has been legally binding through a Consent Order or Child Arrangements Order, challenges and non-compliance can still arise, affecting the well-being of the child.

    Common issues include:

    Failure to Follow the Order: If one parent does not adhere to the terms of the legally binding order, it can lead to conflict and negatively impact the child’s well-being. It is important for both parents to comply with the court-ordered arrangements.

    Changing Circumstances: Life circumstances can change unexpectedly. For instance, a parent may relocate or experience a change in their work schedule. In such cases, the existing court order may need to be modified to reflect the new situation while still considering the child’s best interests.

    Child’s Best Interests: The court always prioritises the child’s best interests. If circumstances arise that significantly affect the child, the court may consider modifying the existing order to better serve the child’s needs and well-being.

    What Can Be Done in Case of Non-Compliance?

    If one parent fails to follow a legally binding parenting plan or Child Arrangements Order, there are several steps that can be taken:

    1. Family Mediation: Returning to family mediation can help parents resolve disputes and potentially update the plan to better suit the current situation. Mediation is often encouraged as a way to reduce conflict and encourage cooperation between parents.
    1. Return to Court: If family mediation fails to resolve disputes or if a parent continues to be non-compliant, the aggrieved parent can return to court. The court has the authority to enforce the existing order and may also consider modifications based on changed circumstances.
    1. Enforcement Orders: In cases of severe non-compliance, the court has the power to issue enforcement orders. These orders can include fines, community service, or, in extreme cases, imprisonment for the non-compliant parent. Sometimes an order can be made for the child to spend time primarily with one parent when a court order is being disregarded. Enforcement orders are designed to ensure that court-ordered arrangements are followed. 

    “The courts are reluctant to make orders in respect of arrangements for the children, as it is generally agreed that the children’s parents should know what is best for them.  However, it is not always possible for parents to agree upon the arrangements for their children, and when this occurs, specialist and focused legal advice is required.”  DFA LAW 


    Picture of a childWhile parenting plans themselves are not legally binding, they play an important role in co-parenting and can become legally enforceable through the family court. Family mediation is often the first step in creating a parenting plan, promoting cooperation, and reducing conflict.

    However, challenges and disputes can still arise, necessitating further legal action to ensure that the child’s best interests are upheld. It’s important for parents to work together, communicate effectively and seek legal guidance when necessary, to ensure the successful implementation of a parenting plan and, most importantly, the well-being of their children.

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